Your income is directly correlated to how fast you can go from “if” to “when”

“If” is broke girl energy. 

It’s waiting for the proof, the validation, the sign that allows you to hope. 

It’s holding yourself back so that you don’t get your hopes up. It’s lukewarm leadership. 

“When” is momentum. It’s not looking for proof. It’s a deep inner knowing that what you want: a client, $10K months, a full DFY, etc is COMING. It’s on the way. 

With “when” you go all in. You’re not afraid for this month to suck because you’re here for the long game. If it’s not this inquiry, it’s the next. If this launch doesn’t fill up, the next one will. It’s a mature, zoomed out perspective. 

And it allows you to lead. 

Because you’re not so wrapped up in the pressure of potential rejection & disappointment. 

You go all in. You move big. You stop waiting for the proof & create it. 

The problem is most of us are too scared to get our hopes up again. Too afraid of disappointment. Too paralyzed by the idea of being seen trying only to fail. 

And this is why we don't create what we want. Because WHO WE ARE BEING is someone in lack, scarcity, fear, hesitation, seeking validation, holding back. 

We go all in with our ACTIONS, but we only get paid to the level of our identity. 

This is where you're getting stuck. You're showing up, I know you are. But you're not going all in -- not really. You're too afraid to. The results you want? They're on the other side of going all in FOR REAL. 

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Listen to Best launch ever? And getting your hopes up/ Episode 57 on Spotify or Apple pods